What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 05:39
Do you think this brought you closer together?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Family Relation Age Play
What happens to single guys when they get older?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Why is money considered to be the root of all evil?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
What did your sister do to you that you can never forget?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Are Turks ashamed of their Islamic heritage?
If yes, what?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Why should we share our wife with others?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How do I cope with the fact that I will never have a girlfriend?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
The Ice Breaker Questions
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Please share Did you stop?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
*** Random Questions ***
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Any that are a turn off?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Would you read them together?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
52~ What are your hobbies?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Nothing too Serious
29- How superstitious are you?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
If you win, what will you make them do?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
*** Questions About Me ***
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
39~ What are your love languages?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
How old are you? Male or Female?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Any that are a turn off?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?